FALL

 

I was asked to give a short reflection on "WHY I LOVE FALL…" at the special September Activity held by the Women's Auxiliary in my Congregation.  The get-together featured everything FALL from food, to crafts, to favorite memories.  

I accepted the invitation, but for the life of me just couldn't paint a glorious picture about Fall.  So, this is what I shared...

 

I NEVER liked Fall!  

Because Fall in my life when I grew up on the high windy plateaus of South Central Wyoming was a meteorological season based on the annual temperature cycle. So, Autumn or Fall, for example, would run September through November, which makes perfect sense to me.

About the only thing I did like about Fall was the start of school the day after Labor Day, because I LOVED school.  But it wasn’t long after school began that the temperature dropped dramatically, the cottonwood and elm trees turned an ugly brown, and the wind picked up with a vengeance blowing the leaves into a mostly dirt-filled screen that pelted our faces and tried to rip our jackets off as we walked to and from school.  Snow wasn’t far behind and was often a heavy accumulation.

By the 31^st of October it was pretty much winter.  Halloween Trick or Treating was no fun because it was cold, windy, and we often tramped door to door in snow.  Plus, our winter coats and snowsuits completely eliminated any hint of the terrific Halloween costumes we were wearing.  Probably why Halloween is my LEAST favorite holiday!

When I left home for my Freshman year at BYU, my dad and I packed my stuff into his truck camper on the evening of the 14^th of September.  I was supposed to report at my dorm on the 15^th, so we planned to leave early, early the next morning for the 8-hour trip.  Only, we woke up to a terrible snowstorm.  Nevertheless—I’m sure because of my whining and lamenting that I just HAD to be in Provo that very day—my dad and I left home in snow so blinding it was difficult to even see the road ahead.  I’m still surprised that Interstate 80 wasn’t closed!  

It took us 8 hours just to get to my sister’s house in Green River, Wyoming, which was only 125 miles away and normally only a two- hour drive.  There we spent the night, grateful to be safely off the road.  We woke up the next morning to brilliant sunshine and a landscape completely covered in white, but the roads were clear.  We made it to Provo without any other delays and arrived at a "snow-less" campus busy welcoming students.  My 24-hour interruption in plans wasn’t even an issue.  I checked into my dorm without fanfare, bid my dad goodbye, and went about the business of college life.

So, you see that early winter blizzard the Willy and Martin Mormon Pioneer Handcart companies encountered on the 19^th of October, 1856, coming across the Wyoming plains was simply nothing short of “normal”.  It was devastating to the pioneers because, even though the companies left later in the year than they should have, no one expected the weather to be deep snow and freezing temperatures.  They weren’t prepared for that.  They had hoped—and prayed—they could outrun the possibility of bad weather.  Don’t mess with Mother Nature!

As for my four years as a BYU student in Provo, Utah, Fall wasn’t too bad for the most part.  It was often downright nice with some colored leaves on the trees and yellow scrub Oak on the mountain.  I even remember a November day at the football game being downright hot in my lovely sweater dress! (Everyone dressed up to go see the Cougars play.  In fact, most events at BYU at that time were dress-up occasions.)

When I went to Denver to work after I graduated from BYU, Fall was mostly colorful with pleasant temperatures, though some years there was that freakish early snowstorm which had a tendency to freeze all the foliage and leave a lot of tree damage.  But those storms didn’t last long, and there were many days plentiful with sunshine and deep blue skies.  My older daughter got married on one of those days--ironically it was October 19, 1997.

THEN I moved to Virginia.  It was September when we arrived, and all the world was still green.  When the leaves turned, it was a kaleidoscope of color—Maple, Ash, Redbud, Hickory, and Black Walnut trees burst with red, orange, and purple in addition to the yellows which made everything spectacular.

My 5^th child was born on October 21^st in Newport News.  As uncomfortable as I was on that long trip to Riverside Hospital, (let’s face it, I was in PAIN) still I couldn’t get over what an awesome panoramic view we had while driving down the Colonial Parkway which was flanked by those beautiful trees in their gorgeous Fall raiment.  It was breathtaking!

After THAT we moved to southern Sweden.  In spite of the fact that the colors in Scandinavia are not as intense as I’ve seen in other parts of the world, the Beech, Oak, Ash, Birch, Spruce, and Pine combined to make really lovely Fall landscapes.  I always thought of the vista there as being “lacy”.  And an added bonus for Fall in Skone were the Christmas markets that began in early November.  What fun that was!

Next, we moved to upstate New York where Goldspire, and Royal Purple Smoke Trees as well as the common deciduous trees like Ash, Maple, Beech, Birch and Oak were plentiful.  Here we could actually rake up HUGE piles of colorful leaves to jump in and feed into giant bonfires.  Oh Fall…how beautiful it was then.  I loved that we were able to do all the fun things I used to just read about in books—the wagon rides, the barnyard visits, and the spiced cider as we mingled with friends and neighbors.

Moving to West Berlin, Germany, brought back the heavy, heavy colors we had seen in Virginia and New York.  And I will never forget the yellow gold of the Linden Trees which lined Unter Den Linden, the road which leads from West to East Belin through the Brandenburg Gate—though when we lived there the Wall was still up and you couldn’t go all the way down to the end of the road.  But the glimpse into the horizon with the golden Linden trees forming a canopy was still spectacular.

No wonder October Fest is such a great occasion in Germany.  All that color made for a fine backdrop to a fun celebration!

So, no, I never liked Fall—until I moved to other places and saw the beauty of Fall as it was intended to be, not cut short with premature frost and debilitating early snow.

Now I love Fall!  I can appreciate the deep blue skies and bright sunshine with pleasant temperatures when that’s on the weather menu.  When the weather menu calls for cold temps and snow, I know it usually won’t last.  The sun will come out again and make for a beautiful prelude to my favorite holiday—THANKSGIVING—which signals the end of Fall!

But I still don’t like Halloween….

BLUE RIBBON MOM!

 

I've been going through stuff down the basement--a little bit at a time, as it is SO overwhelming what I have tucked away through the years.  

I found this list in the small box of Jeremy's things I saved.  Things which were important to Jeremy when he was alive.  I think the list might have been a project his Primary class did for a Mother's Day gift.  I'm guessing this was a year or so before he died.

I enjoyed reading what he wrote and got a kick out of his spelling, as well as the reasons he came up with that he thought I was a great MOM.  A few of the reasons are pretty generic, but I can tell he put a lot of thought into what he listed.  

Number 13--I had recently made drapes for the bedroom he and Schuyler shared.  He thought they were cool and liked them a lot.

Number 12--Though he was outgoing and in the thick of things at home with five siblings, when he was away from the family, he was kind of shy.  We had talked about what he could do to make friends at school.

I think the first reason says I help him obey.

In all, this was a pretty nostalgic find for me.  We only got to have Jeremy with us for 10 short years.  And now that 37 years have gone by since he fell out of that old Cottonwood tree, it was a loving reminder from the past about a cute, blond headed, freckle-faced boy with the most beautiful deep blue eyes who ran and played and rode a bike--and climbed a tree.

Someday I will see him again.

That will be a #1 BLUE RIBBON award, for sure!

Jeremy’s list of great things about Mom—from a Primary class, probably during third grade.               

He also drew a #1 Blue Ribbon Award on the page.

A Tale of Serendipity

 

I play the organ for my Church congregation on Sundays.  Often when I am at the chapel during the week to practice for the coming Sunday's service, there is some activity in the parking lot. Though I am usually the only person inside the chapel itself during the time I practice, I am not always alone.   

The parking lot is fairly spacious, so kids ride their bikes or skateboards unimpeded by traffic.  People walk their dogs in this semi-shady area.  Now and again the groundskeepers are mowing the lawns or trimming the bushes.  And once in a while, workers who are looking to get out of the sun and have a quick rest will sit in their cars to eat their lunch.

One beautiful Saturday morning at the beginning of summer, I came out of the chapel after practicing the organ and noticed two women sitting on the curb resting.  There was no car in the parking lot, so I was surprised to see them there.  They greeted me and asked me what time Church Services began on Sunday.  

I told them three congregations met in that chapel on Sunday:  9:00 am, 10:30 am, and noon.  "But," I told them "my husband and I attend the 9 am meetings during which I play the organ."  Then I extended an invitation for them to come at that time and attend Church with us.

We chatted for a few minutes by way of introduction.   "Are you visiting family here?"  No.  Laura Monroe shared that she had just lost her husband recently, and her friend Heidi Lynn, who had lost her husband last year had agreed to accompany her from San Antonio, Texas, to Shelly, Idaho, where Laura's husband had relatives.  Their principal business in this area was to meet Laura's brother-in-law who was going to help her sell her motor home on the following day. 

After some more pleasantries--and condolences--the two women took off on foot for the rest of their walk.

And that was when I slapped my forehead in utter disbelief of myself!  I pray every day that I may be an instrument in the Lord's hand to assist whoever might need a helping hand.  Here was a perfect opportunity--and I had basically dissed the Lord who had put two women right in front of me!  Two women who might like to have some friends for a day.  WHY didn't I ask if I could drive them to their motel?  WHY didn't I invite them to come to our home and spend the afternoon, so they didn't have to stare at the walls of a cramped hotel room.  WHY hadn't I told them we would pick them up for Church the next morning and also extend a dinner invitation for after Sunday meetings?   WHY, WHY, WHY?   I'm just no good at extending myself.  I do that kind of inclusion so infrequently: I don't even know how to do it!

So, I started to pray mightily that my new friends Laura and Heidi WOULD come to 9 am services the following morning.  I would be prepared--in advance--to invite them to Sunday dinner for a meal that I would already have cooking.  If they said "no", at least I would have made the effort to treat them as our guests.  

"Please...let me make up for my initial failure to invite them when I should have," was the mantra that played over and over in my head the rest of the day as my husband and I rushed to the grocery store to buy the ingredients for a favorite meal that was easy to fix, but really hit the spot in its simplicity.  

When we got home, I started prepping for Sunday dinner, first by preparing the roast with all its special seasonings for the crock pot to be turned on at the crack of dawn.  Then I prepared the salad, got out a special cloth and dishes to set the table after Church, and went to bed still asking forgiveness for not picking up on the promptings while I was with Heidi and Laura in the church parking lot.

I decided to walk to Church early the following morning so I could prepare the organ stops and mark the hymnal at all the right numbers.  Just as I was coming up the sidewalk that approached the front doors of the chapel, Lo and Behold, there were Laura and Heidi approaching the front door from the opposite direction!  I was sooo happy to see them.  First part of my fervent prayer answered!

Right then my husband Louis drove up. I introduced them to him and left him to get Laura and Heidi settled in the chapel while I hurried to the organ.  When the service was over, I went to the classroom for instruction and saw the two women sitting near the back with an empty seat beside them--for me!  With great gusto I introduced them to the rest of the class as my new friends--and gave a little rundown as to how we had met "just yesterday" when they walked from their motel to the chapel to see what time Church was scheduled for today's meetings.

At the end of the meeting block that day, I wasted no time inviting my two new friends to Sunday dinner at 3 pm.  They accepted, and we drove them to the motel so they could rest before Louis went back to pick them up in time for our planned meal.

But wait....!  My bad luck as a cook kicked in once again.  So, dinner wasn't the smooth little repast that I had in mind.  Yes, I prepped the night before so I could plug in the crock pot at precisely 5 am and the meat could slow-cook until it was so tender it could be shredded with a fork.  Nuh uh....  When we got home about 11:30 am from dropping our friends off at the motel--which was quite a walk for them, at least five plus miles each way--I discovered my latest culinary mistake.  I DID plug the crock pot in, but I forgot to turn it "ON".  

In a panic, I turned the heat to high so the roast could cook in five hours, which it did but turned out dry and tough.  Not the juicy piece of seasoned beef that was supposed to fall apart after 8 hours of slow cooking.  Oh, and I forgot all about the coleslaw which is supposed to be the filling with the meat for the sliders.  Chips were fine.  And the Orange-Shake 'Em Up Bars turned out okay, I guess.  They seemed to hit the spot for dessert.  Actually, the food was secondary to the satisfying opportunity to host strangers who soon  became friends.  

Really, none of that black cloud over the food preparation mattered at all.  What mattered is that I had been able to make good my promise that if the Lord would direct me, I would reach out to any person that came into my path. 

Not only were Laura and Heidi delightful guests, they were fun to visit with as we learned more about them and they learned about us.  It was a long shot from being any kind of sacrifice as we extended ourselves to these delightful women.

All too soon it was time for us to return Heidi and Laura to their motel.  They were expecting the buyer for the motor home about 6 pm.  And the following morning they would be on their way to Shelly, Idaho, where they would spend time with the Munroe Family.  Heidi was slated to stay until the first week in July and then return to Texas without Laura.

"Goodbye!  Goodbye!  Thank you for letting us take you in for a day.  Please stop by any time you are here again."  And they also said the same for us if we get to Texas.  

It was all over before I realized I had made the second mistake--I forgot   to chronicle this special event with even one snapshot to record a most remarkable occasion!

However, words sometimes paint their own pictures.  Later that day Laura texted the following message:  

Dear Georgia & Louis,

I'm so very grateful for your gift of loving friendship--inviting Heidi and me into your home for dinner, driving us back and forth, and sharing experiences.

You immediately warmly welcomed us as family.

Talking with you, sharing our different thoughts was more soothing than I can express, especially at this time when I needed it most.

I treasure this day and God's special gift of bringing you into my & Heidi's lives.

We love you and look forward to when we'll meet again.  You'll always have a place to stay with me when visiting Shelley ID or San Antonio (Floresville) TX. 

With Love, 

Laura 

And my reply:

Oh, Laura...the pleasure and sense of friendship was on our end, as well.  Thank you, thank you for responding to two strangers.  We will certainly stay in touch...and with Heidi, too!

A few days later I texted Laura again, saying I hoped that their trip to Shelly was pleasant and expressed my feelings again that the previous weekend was a real treasure when we met both her and Heidi.

Laura then replied that they had loved visiting with me and Louis.  She then went on to say that we had made that segment of their journey beautiful with our kind and loving spirit.  A "highlight" was her word choice.  Then she added a wish of blessings for us.

One night not too long after our wonderful visit with Laura and Heidi, I wrote the entire experience on my tablet in preparation for posting it on my blog.  But, I clicked something on the tablet that accidentally--and totally erased the entire story except for the first three paragraphs.  I was frantic trying everything I could think of to "find" it somewhere in cyberspace--without success.  Nothing I did recalled it.  Needless to say, I was devastated.

Then life got in the way...  

An extended family reunion in Ohio, children and grandchildren coming to visit us as we all vacationed in Estes Park.  My nephew's 50th wedding anniversary in Wyoming, and a week's visit from another nephew and wife from Texas.

Whew! 

So, I am just now rewriting that remarkable experience when I reached out to a couple of friendly women who only wanted to know when services at the chapel were going to be held the following day.  Women who became our friends over a short 24 hours!  

Now that several weeks have passed, I may have some of the details wrong, but I still think the whole experience was....

SERENDIPITOUS !

PROTECTION...

 

There is a church on Hiway 66 which runs east and west through one of our neighboring cities in Northern Colorado.  Whoever prepares the marquee out in front of that church is really clever.  Over the years I have seen various billings that succinctly convey a message that is contemporary, as well as a NEEDFUL reminder.  

We live in an increasingly challenging world which presents a plethora of enticing distractions to make us veer off course.  This last one I saw a few days ago also had a pertinent communication meant for us to give pause.... 

Here is what the sign maker suggests we consider.  It is worded like an advertisement for skin protection.

PREVENT SIN BURN

Below that caution was the following wording on the drawing of a lotion bottle.

SON SCREEN

                            (READ THIS AS  "SON"  SCREEN)

Spot on about WHO we can turn to for protection, 

don't you think!

ABOVE AND BEYOND

 

My mother was a homemaker in the truest sense of the word.  And that included making sure our home was clean and inviting.  She had meticulous standards for keeping house which she taught me--and my seven sisters who were all quite a bit older than I was.  Though I wasn't particularly fond of doing the housework, I loved the way everything looked when the jobs were finished.  That was good incentive to practice the care she demonstrated when I got my own home and family.

I had a half dozen kids.  So, eight sets of feet and hands could make a lot of mess.  It was just natural to vacuum and dust every day, as well as do the basic sweeping, pickup, dishes, bathrooms, etc. that were generated from living life.  Of course, as the kids got old enough, they all had responsibilities that helped make our home as clean and inviting as my childhood home.

As time went on and they left for their own lives and their own homes, I was gratified that my children also felt comfortable making sure their surroundings were well-cared for.

Then...they were gone.  And it was just my husband and I living in the house.  We didn't make much of a mess, but I was still particular about making sure everything was at least kind of pristinely cared for.  I was gone a lot of the time with my work as a flight attendant for United Airlines, however, I liked cleaning everything before I left for an assignment.  I would stand at the door as I walked out to go to the airport and think how welcome the house would feel when I got home again.

The years slipped by.  I started to feel older and the prospect of getting down on my knees to mop the kitchen floor was no longer appealing.  Nor was the effort it took to wrangle the vacuum because that motion exacerbated my ailing shoulder.  In spite of still wanting that feeling of looking at a clean house and breathing a wonderful sigh of relief that everything was  inviting, housecleaning was getting more and more challenging for me. That was when I started looking into having some kind of cleaning service help me out.  I reasoned that I certainly "deserved" that much.  Plus, I was still working, so a little help here and there was doable.

At the time there were plenty of flyers out there for franchised maid services--some with incentive coupons.  I tried several.  But there was always some degree of lackluster performance.  

Like one time, I requested that they clean my farm-house style slatted blinds.  What the cleaner did was put each slat against the window and wipe it with some sort of solution.  What a shocker that the WINDOW itself had rows of horizontal streaks left from that method of cleaning!  That must have been completely acceptable to the cleaner.  She left it like that! 

 Another time I asked for specific items to be taken care of and paid the quoted fee for the job.  Needless to say, I wasn't too happy when the cleaner requested almost half again as much more money--after she was completely finished.  She said it "took too long".

Those experiences reminded me of some scenarios I read about in Stud Terkel's famous book WORKING, which I read in the 70's.  The housecleaners weren't particularly keen on doing a job the way their employers wanted--because the employers weren't willing to get down on their own hands and knees and scrub the way their wanted their houses to be cleaned!  

After those less than satisfactory cleaning jobs, I learned from a friend that a young woman in our congregation had started a housecleaning service.  I jumped at the prospect that someone I knew might agree to help me with my housework now and then--the heavy stuff which I was having more and more difficulty taking care of.

Having Amy come to clean now and then was about the best thing that I chose to do to help myself. When it came to cleaning the house and having it look as if someone cared as much as I did to do the job right and make sure everything was cleaned properly, Amy has been my go-to person.  The outcome has always produced that "welcome home" feeling when I walk through the door after she has been here!

Plus, there have been other perks like the extras and the little gifts her young daughter has gifted me.  One was a tiny elephant figurine for my special collection.  Another was a miniature lighted blown glass Nativity to add to my lovely Christmas collection.  I love to admire those, too.

But today--Amy outdid herself!  

I have had company almost non-stop for the past several weeks.  All welcome, but all those people also generated a lot of tramped down carpet, spills on the floors, fingerprints on every inch of wood, bathrooms that needed to be scrubbed, and a lot of other details I haven't gotten around to taking care of for a variety of reasons.   When I contacted her, I was so grateful Amy could fit me into her schedule.

The list for today's housecleaning was vacuum the carpet, scrub two bathrooms. and shine up my glassed-in shower. But when she came....she also polished my kitchen and bathroom cabinets, vacuumed the whole house including the throw rugs AND THE FURNITURE, cleaned all the counter tops in the kitchen, wiped out the microwave, and as a loving gesture, cleaned my big, big bathtub--in case I needed a soak!  But the best part was that my husband thought I had the carpets cleaned.  No.  Amy got rid of the nasty stain on the carpet, too!.  That alone changed the whole look of the house back to "cared-for".

After all my company, Amy could see what a mess everything was--the details that I hadn't been able to get taken care of like I normally do before she comes now and then to perform her housecleaning magic.

Today, she gave me the "step-up" I couldn't do for myself at this point in time!  And how grateful I am for that. I walked into the house after my volunteer assignment, and it felt soooo good and clean and welcoming.   IT WAS ABOVE AND BEYOND! 

Thank you, Amy!  

I don't do Facebook, and she doesn't have a website.  But,I wanted to let SOMEONE know how much I appreciate Amy's cheerful attitude, willingness to work, and the great housecleaning talent she has to make so many homes shine and sparkle under her caring touch.  My mother would have recognized such meticulous standards and approved everything Amy does!

You can call her Mrs. Clean!

  

Musings...

 Several years ago when I decided to write a blog, I set a goal for myself to write at least two posts per month.  Most months I have been able to accomplish that because there is always something to write about.  The second blog I wanted to post this month was about a really great experience I had a few weeks ago when I met two really wonderful women.  I wanted to write about that.  But my days in the last couple of months have been filled to the brim with so many "have to" jobs that I didn't take the time to sit down and let myself tell the story of our encounter.

Then my husband Louis and I went on a short trip, and I decided some down time in the evening at our hotel would be a great time for me to write that blog.  I took my little ZAGG keyboard and my tablet to work on it.

It has been a long time since I pulled the little keyboard out and worked on my tablet, but I was making really good progress relating the details of the short time Laura Munroe and Heidi Lynn popped into our lives.  As it got later and later in the evening, however, and I wasn't completely finished with my narrative, I decided to save what I had written to begin again at another opportune moment.

Only... as I was reaching over the keyboard, I accidentally did something that erased all but the first two paragraphs!  I was stunned to see the work I had completed during the previous hour just disappear.  I don't even know what I had done for it to be deleted.  Knowing that most things that are captured like this are still "out there" in cyber space, I spent the next half hour trying everything I could think of to retrieve the missing paragraphs of my tale about a chance meeting that was truly serendipitous.  Never happened.

Tonight, I am on the eve of yet another little trip.  There will be no time tomorrow or Saturday or Sunday to rewrite the experience I want to share on my blog.  So, I started leafing through some of my journals and notebooks for something short, but significant to me, that I could share in a last-minute post.

Funny me!  I can NEVER just find something appropriate quickly.  I still have to read, re-read and determine if that particular piece would be meaningful.  Plus, I always have to muse over and remember again the impact something I've saved had on me when I first read it.  But I think this short quote might fill the bill.

Right now, in a scripture study class I am taking, we are discussing why bad things happen to good people.  This quote from Henry Ward Beecher touches on these unwanted experiences and how they can refine us--even as they devastate us.  This is a quote I have shared often with others who are struggling with some "Why me?" trials.  I think of it as a balm for the grief we sometimes have to bear in our lives.  It has certainly eased my own pain from time to time.

"There are many trials in life which do not seem to come from unwisdom or folly; they are silver arrows shot from the bow of God and fixed inexplicably in the quivering heart.  They are meant to be borne.  They were not meant, like snow or water, to melt as soon as they strike.  But the moment an ill can be patiently borne, it is disarmed of its poison, though not of its pain."

 Until next time...

WHAT'S IN A WORD...?

 

MEANDER or WEAVE

When we moved to our little town in Northern Colorado a couple of decades ago, it was still pretty rural. Small towns dotted the landscape far off in the distance from the interstate which intersects the entire state north to south.  Even though each of those small towns had begun to expand from their original four- square block downtown areas, there was still plenty of farmland and open space to make it feel roomy and inviting.

However, in the last few years more and more planned neighborhoods have popped up, as have building after building of apartments which string their way among all the new houses and strip shops which invariably have joined the march of progress.  Sadly, the "rural" part has pretty much disappeared.  

Obviously, the next step would be to add a bigger infrastructure of roads to handle all the additional traffic which seemed to go hand in hand with more people.

So, we have endured road construction of some sort or another for the last five years as CDOT scrambles to relieve the congestion of too many cars on too few roads.  First, it was new interchanges at every exit to those small towns.  Now it is adding a new HOV lane as a toll road which will soon connect Fort Collins to points south through Metro Denver. 

Even though most of that toll road has been completed, there is still an incomplete section a little south of us that has to join the two systems together.  Despite the fact the whole proposed toll system hasn't been finished yet, that sizable length is ready-to-go with all the proper signage.  It's like this new section is an opportunity to "practice" for the real deal.

Though there are also signs in place that say no car can drive over the solid white lines without incurring a fine, there is a bright orange strip slapped onto each one of the big green freeway signs that says, "TOLLS WAIVED". 

It didn't take long for cars to begin using that new HOV lane as just another traffic lane to switch back and forth as they literally sail down the road at speeds quite a bit above the posted 75 MPH.

Next thing that happened was a message on the lighted programmed traffic boards:

MEANDERING BETWEEN LANES AND CROSSING THE 

SOLID WHITE LINES INTO THE HOV LANES IS ILLEGAL

 AND SUBJECT TO FINES

That didn't change anything at all.  Cars were still "meandering" in zig zags across those solid white lines into the HOV lane and out again into the regular lanes to get any advantage they could to surge ahead in the traffic.

So, someone must have decided that telling drivers not to "meander" wasn't a serious enough warning if they didn't want to get fined.  A new message appeared on the programmed traffic boards:

WEAVING BETWEEN LANES AND CROSSING THE 

SOLID WHITE LINES INTO THE HOV LANES IS ILLEGAL

 AND SUBJECT TO FINES

Apparently, nothing will scare motorists into thinking that "tolls waived" means anything more than just that.  And that they can drive wherever they want without monetary repercussion.  In fact, people ARE getting fined.  Big Time!  The news is full of snippets about individuals who have been fined HUGE amounts of money--like we're talking nearly a $1000.00 plus for repeatedly crossing the lines.  Still, there are those that think perhaps they won't get caught.  Not sure.  But until then I make sure I cross into the HOV lane on the DOTTED WHITE LINES.  And exit again on the DOTTED WHITE LINES.

I don't have money to play games on the freeway.

MEANDER or WEAVE?  They both spell money wasted, to me!

So....What's in a Word?

UPDATE JULY 3, 2024--Just read in the news that over        $40 million in tickets for this violation have been issued in Colorado for the first nine months.  And only a fraction of that amount has been collected.  People have all kinds of excuses why they should NOT have been ticketed in the first place, in spite of video evidence they repeatedly crossed the double white lines.  "What were you thinking?!?!?"

FAITH

 

I read this little snippet online recently from a Christian website.  It is about a man in the mid 1800's who had come from a monied family and squandered everything he had.

After his father bailed him out of jail, a friend invited him to a "prayer meeting" (not the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints).  That's where he "discovered" the verse from James in the New Testament about true religion being to visit the widows and the orphans and to stay "unspotted" from the world.  He turned his life around.

This incredible man began an orphanage relying only on God for the funds.

Sometimes as mealtime neared and there was no food, he testified that Lord always sent someone with what was needed to feed the children.  Eventually, he founded five large orphanages and cared for over 10,000 children.

George Mueller lived his life in a way that proves God is real, God is trustworthy, and God answers prayers. 

Herr Mueller is quoted as saying of his life's experience working with the orphaned and waiting on the Lord to provide their sustenance:

The beginning of anxiety is the  

END of FAITH,

and the 

BEGINNING of FAITH 

is the end of anxiety.

What more valuable lesson than this?

FAITH IS EVERYTHING!

I HAD AN ITCH!

 

Not sure what happened...but a few days ago I began to feel an itch on my upper chest.  And it was intense!  A mosquito bite?  Not the season for mosquitos yet, but something must have bitten me.  There was definitely a red bump, then lump, about the size of a dime, and it came with a fierce itch!  Then I noticed a similar red bump on my ankle with the same reaction.  Louis suggested it might be spider bites.  But I haven't been walking outside or working in the yard lately.  Stuck in the house at the computer completing some assignments I have.  Was there a spider in the house? Could I have been bitten while I was in bed asleep? Not a clue....

However, both the injured spots had the same irritating itch.  And it was constant.  I kept telling myself NOT to scratch those pesky red spots, but I couldn't seem to keep from sawing away at them.  And that liquid After Bite stick didn't do a thing when I rolled it over the affected areas.  Still bugged me day and night. So, I got out the serious itch relief--cortisone cream.

One night I woke up just crazy with that stupid itch.  So, I got out of bed, padded to the bathroom in the dark and went straight to the cabinet under the sink where I grabbed the tube of cortisone cream.  Didn't need a light because I knew exactly where the affected areas were. So, I applied a generous amount to each spot and rubbed it in.  Ahh! That cooling cream felt pretty good.  Then I padded back to bed.

No relief though!  I tossed and turned trying not to scratch that pesky itch.  Finally, I was able to fall back to sleep in spite of being so distracted with the irritating discomfort. 

The next morning when I went into the bathroom to get ready for the day, I saw a tube of hair gel sitting on the counter and wondered what in the world it was doing there.  I hadn't used it the day before.  Besides, I always put all my cosmetics and hair products away after I use them.  I had only left the tube of cortisone cream on the counter after I had used it during the night.

LIGHT BULB! 

Oh, no wonder there was no mitigation for the itch!  When I reached under the sink for the tube of cortisone cream, I accidentally grabbed the tube of hair gel which was in close proximity.  What a surprise it didn't do anything to alleviate my discomfort during the night...because the cortisone cream was still under the bathroom sink!  I used the wrong "remedy".

Oh, well.  Episode over.  Lesson learned.  BUT...

I STILL HAVE AN ITCH!