Thursday, September 29, 2022

GENERAL CONFERENCE

 

                                                                                                                                                                      


GENERAL CONFERENCE                                                                                                            OF THE  CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS




                     

I didn’t always like General Conference.  Oh, when I was a teenager, it was a great adventure when my folks would let me with my cousin Lynn Butterfield use Conference as an excuse to go alone to Salt Lake City. Our dads both worked for Union Pacific Railroad, and we could ride the train for free. We would board the train at midnight from Rawlins, Wyoming, where we lived and travel all night for a 9 am arrival in SLC.  (This was the 60’s. No one was worried about our safety like you would be now!)  Lynn’s married brother Roger lived there, as did five of my sisters.  We usually crashed at my sister Marcie’s apartment since she was a student in SLC and had no entanglements with husband and family. 

 

Ostentatiously, we were there for Conference.  In those days Conference lasted three days and included the Sunday closest to the 6th of either April or October.  Maybe Sunday was the first day or the last day of the proceedings.  But we crammed in shopping trips—Z.C.M.I. (Utah’s department store) and all the other stores were up and down Main Street, not clustered in Malls as they are now—and always a visit to Keeley’s, a popular little hole in the wall that served delicious sandwiches and delectable ice cream sundaes.  We could only afford one treat there each time.  But Conference time was sale time for the merchants, and I always went back to Rawlins with at least one pair of shoes from Baker’s or one of the other now long-gone shoe stores. 

 

Once in a while, we would stand in line and jostle for seats in the Tabernacle.  Most of the time if the weather was nice, we would sit on the lawn and “listen” to the talks, then try to get a glimpse of President McKay as he left the Tabernacle.  David O. McKay was the Prophet for a long time when I was growing up.  Got a lot out of that.  RIGHT! 

 

Years later as a BYU student, groups of us would go to Temple Square for Conference (by then it was only a two-day affair) and sit on the lawn visiting with each other. Got a lot out of THAT, too.  Oh, I had my favorite speakers.  But still no impact on me.  Even when Conference began to be broadcast over cable television in my Wyoming hometown and our Sunday meetings were cancelled so we could stay home and watch, I wasn’t really interested.  In fact, I used to dread those long hours in front of the TV.  My dad would insist I come out from my room to the front room and watch with the family—he who didn’t even go to Church!  Did I get anything out of it?  I doubt it.  I always used to watch in my pajamas, and doze off or daydream, waiting until I could be “released”. 

 

I am not sure when Conference began to take on a new dimension in my life.  I suppose it was when I had sufficiently matured to understand  the scriptures better and know that the General Authorities were the “prophets” spoken of in those books.  Maybe it was when I started putting something into Conference—not as George Washington put it, “going like an empty bucket to be filled.”  Like actually being present while I was listening!  That was when I noticed some of those talks had something for me to learn from and apply in my own life. 

 

Marvin J. Ashton’s talks were always about the temporal side of life—personal finances and relationships.  I could relate to those things.  One April I remember watching Conference from my hospital bed the morning after my 4th baby Jeremy was born and being so grateful when President Kimball spoke of food storage that I could hold my head up because we had a good amount in place.  I remember Elder Packer’s talk about spiritual crocodiles, President Benson’s landmark address about pride, Elder McConkie’s testimony of Christ (and I just felt he was going to be dead soon—and he did die just days later) and others on and on through the years.   I remember the eloquence with which Elder Maxwell spoke about being disciples of Christ and feeling that maybe, just maybe, I might be on the road to being one.  Too many General Conference memories to list.  But now I look forward to Conference.  I want to hear the broadcast, I feel uplifted when I read the talks during the following months. And since I spend a lot of time in my car, I listen to the CDs of past Conferences featuring both the spoken word and music from the Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square. I appreciate these spiritual influences.

 

I have changed.  And these days I am grateful for the Lord’s direction to us in this way.  We can’t go wrong in listening to and implementing into our lives the principles which the Prophets present.  That I am a better person for making Conference an important part of my life is readily apparent to me. Of this I testify and encourage you to make Conference meaningful this October 1st and 2nd.  Session times are Saturday 10am, 2pm and 6pm   Sunday 10am and 2 pm. Streamed live on ChurchofJesusChrist.org and the church’s General Conference YouTube channel, though there are many other platforms that will be streaming the broadcast.

Russell M. Nelson, Prophet and President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints will preside at the two-day conference this weekend.

Tuesday, September 13, 2022

The WISDOM in Proverbs...

 

 Proverbs....


I recently studied the book of Proverbs in the  Come Follow Me

curriculum for Sunday School for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day

 Saints.  It was an uplifting endeavor.


Proverbs is full of the familiar sayings that we still hear quoted

 frequently in our time, such as: “Train up a child in the way he should

 go, and he will not depart from it” and “A soft answer turneth away

 wrath” as well as “A Merry Heart Doeth Good Like a Medicine”.  That one

 has been a favorite of mine for a long time.


Attributed mostly to the writings of King Solomon, this is one of the

 books in the Old Testament that are referred to as “wisdom literature”.

  It’s almost like a manual of parental advice, words of wisdom for us to

 help us and our children navigate life.


Emily Belle Freeman said that 

“...this wisdom literature was written with a concept of “thinking through” which involves bringing in other opinions, reaching out to God for answers, and noticing the fruits of the decisions we’ve made.”

I could see that as I read Proverbs.  In the very first chapter of the book

 of Proverbs, are these words:

“My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother” (Proverbs 1:8).

So, as I was studying this book in the Old Testament and rereading some

 little gems I hadn’t thought of for years, I found myself also thinking

 about the words of wisdom my own parents imparted to me as I was

 growing up.

When I left to go to Brigham Young University, my dad said, “Now,

 Georgia, just because everyone there belongs to our Church doesn’t

 mean they believe the same.”  I scoffed.  “Oh, Dad!”  But it turned out

 he was right!  That was something I had to “think through” when I saw

 my roommates and other students doing things that I had been taught

 were clearly not part of living the gospel of Jesus Christ.  Even watching

 them do something like housework or shopping on Sunday made me

 stop and look around to see what other people were doing and what

 other opinions people had about how to spend the Sabbath day.  I made

 a conscious decision to continue living the way I had been taught

 because I felt better, doing “Sunday” things on Sunday and staying

 away from what I had been taught were not “Sunday” things.  That

 brought peace for my week.


I remember one thing my mother requested when I was growing up was

 that I come home from playing with a friend at the reasonable time she

 had specified.  I didn’t always like that rule, and sometimes I would cal

l home and ask if I could stay longer.  I can’t think of too many times my

 mother said it was okay.  Usually she would reply, “Now is a good time

 to leave when you’re still having a pleasant time and enjoying each

 other’s company.  You’ll be better friends.”  And she was right, too.  Just

 like my dad had been.   Spending too much time together often led to

 quarrels and sometimes even sneaky behavior both my friends and I

 knew wasn’t the best idea. Again, it was checking out other people’s

 opinions and determining the consequences of the decisions I was

 making even when I got older, and I didn’t have my mother nearby

 suggesting that it really was time to come home at the specified hour. 

Both of these pieces of advice found their way into the way I parented

 my own children.  And THAT, is when I could really see the wisdom of

 my parents' humble teachings.

I’m sure you have similar experiences with the “wisdom literature” your

 parents shared with you and how you share some of that wisdom with

 your own children. 

In October 1983, Marion G. Romney who was a counselor to President

 Spencer W. Kimball in the First Presidency of the Church of Jesus Christ

 of Latter-day Saints said, “ … What we desperately need is to

 recognize and acquire that quality which converts knowledge

 into wisdom.”

Consequently, my invitation to you and to me is to think about the

 lessons from Proverbs and keep on “thinking through” everything that

 comes our way, check out other opinions, seek answers from God, and

 keep track of the results of the decisions we have made. If we do, we

 will acquire that quality which converts knowledge into wisdom.  Then

 we will be able to continue to share that wisdom with our family and

 others in order to better navigate life.